age 18-21, anonymous writes: So as not confuse you, I'll put these facts in list form:
-My husband and I are both 19 (he'll be 20 the end of this month) and we've been together for two years (tomorrow is our two year anniversary). -We've been married for three months and I'm currently eight and a half months pregnant. -We got married five months after we found out I was pregnant. -What's funny is that we conceived our unborn son the night we got engaged. He did it good and proper, too. Took us to the place of our first date and proposed in the most adorable way with an insanely beautiful (and rather expensive) ring to put on my finger! Before I got pregnant, I did want a nice, big wedding with all my family and friends and a gorgeous dress but none of that mattered when my fiancé at the time told me he would never leave me even if we never did get married. But, in the end, HE refused to not marry me. I know at a such a young age like 19 and 20, you can't always count on the words of a young man; especially when he's about to be a new father. But, fortunately, I got myself a real good man; a country man. I told him I wanted to elope but he didn't want me to regret not having a proper wedding with all our family and friends present. It's fantastic! I was barely showing at five months and both my mom and my husband's mom resented me for it. But we had 225 guests and used my husband's parents' backyard for the ceremony. They own ten acres of GORGEOUS green with a scenery I thought only existed in magazines! My fiancé at the time was definitely treating me right. Anyway, of all these amazing things to happen to me, knowing I have security and a stable place to live and a man who is more than willing to take care of and support his family, I still can't help but feel... Trapped. I'm not sure I'm ready for this child and he's going to show his perfect little face in just two and a half weeks. Maybe it's the crazy pregnancy hormones or something. But what am I supposed to do?View related questions: anniversary, conceive, engaged, wedding
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