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A female reader, CandyKins 
+, writes (6 November 2010):
Because you need to be more confident and they may have a better personality than you do. Looks do help and can be to your advantage but if you got no personality or brains behind it then you're not going to get noticed. You would... but nothing can be taken further. You would just be an amusement to the eye. You're scared of rejection. But at the end of the day everyone gets rejected somehow, eventually or one way or the other. It's silly to play it safe and being extra cautious because sometimes to get where you want to be or what you want you got to take risks and chances. Say you get rejected by this guy it doesn't imply you're useless. Think of it as auditions. There are ppl that are simply amazing and even better than those who got the part. Think about Ugly Betty. A female reader, thewalkin'dude 
+ ?, writes (6 November 2010):
Who are you to decide who's ugly and whos not? Maybe it's your shallow personality that's putting people off. Just a thought. ............................... A female reader, tennisstar88 + ?, writes (6 November 2010):
Well now fat girls need loving too..in fact we have a few guys on here claiming they like overweight women over pin thin women.. Like the other aunts have said it's all about personal preference. Surely there's more reasons than that holding you back from asking him out? Like nerves or fear of rejection. Let me put it this way, you've liked him for 6 years how much longer are you going to put this off? Don't let him pass you by, take a risk..life is full of them. ............................... A female reader, blonde30s + ?, writes (6 November 2010):
maybe cause the things you say are not very nice. you said about ugly fat girls which isnt a nice thing to say at all. we are all different and its whats inside that counts and the person you are. your meet someone when the time is right. get to know people go out with friends and dont try too hard for a boyfriend it will happen all in good time. ............................... A female reader, aunt honesty 
+ ?, writes (6 November 2010):
Well i actually find what you just said quite shallow so maybe that has something to do with it, you just said ugly fat girl, which is very hurtful, ok so these girls might be over weight but they might have great personalities and this is what a guy truely goes for, personality wins everytime because guys want to be able to enjoy the company of there girlfriends and have a laugh with them. Looks arent everything. If you like this guy then you should just ask him out, then you will no once and for all if you have a chance with him or not. ............................... A female reader, Aunty BimBim 
+ ?, writes (6 November 2010):
Ugliness, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder. What you see as ugly and overweight the boyfriends might see as voluptous or ruebenesque. If the guy you have liked for the past six years doesnt have a girlfriend, why not ask him out. Maybe he has been too nervous to ask YOU out because you are so pretty and the "hot one." ............................... A female reader, lamee 
+, writes (6 November 2010):
sweety dont worry just dont bush to hard on ur self ,, why don't u love ur self and take care of ur self ,, just like how u wish that boyfriend well,,and wait tell the right one for u comes to u ,, dont ever wait or look at what other girls have ,,u still got ur self and the much more u give that love to ur self the much more boys want to be around u ,, is not bout ugly girls there is no ugly girls we all pretty ladies ,, and we all deserve to be loved some how ,, take care of ur own beauty and dont bother ur self ur man well be there for u make ur self as much pretty as u can for him tell he show up and have u ,,good luck ............................... A female reader, dmartin89 + ?, writes (6 November 2010):
You are calling your friends "these overweight, ugly and mean girls"?! Wow, you don't exactly sound like a breath of fresh air.. The impression that you have given to me is that you are incredibly vain, immature for asking this question and very self involved. Maybe that's why you don't have a boyfriend. Beauty isn't skin deep. These other boys obviously see something in their girlfriends that you don't have. Beauty is also intimidating, it can be hard to feel comfortable around "the hot one". ............................... A male reader, bernard +, writes (6 November 2010):
dont try to fit into there world its because you have something that they dont have you have class.dont worrie the right bf will come your way ............................... A female reader, Closet romance14 + ?, writes (6 November 2010):
Sometimes it not always about looks with guys. If a guy likes you, he likes you. Ask this guy out, If he likes you then he will make it happen. Good luck. ............................... A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):
True beauty is on the inside, not the outside. ............................... A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):
Maybe once you stop calling those girls ugly and overweight, you might actually get one. It's not that hard. ...............................
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